{"id":867,"date":"2018-02-05T09:19:34","date_gmt":"2018-02-05T02:19:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tapchidouong.com.vn\/?p=867"},"modified":"2018-02-05T09:19:34","modified_gmt":"2018-02-05T02:19:34","slug":"cho-di-khong-mong-nhan-lai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/?p=867","title":{"rendered":"Cho \u0111i kh\u00f4ng mong nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i"},"content":{"rendered":"

Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ti\u00eau d\u00f9ng, l\u1ee3i nhu\u1eadn l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi giao d\u1ecbch, v\u0103n h\u00f3a t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng. Ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 cho nhau. \u0110\u00f4i khi, t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng cho nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn cho r\u1eb1ng, n\u00ean b\u1ecf l\u1ec7 n\u00e0y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, theo nh\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c Elfie Miklautz, qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1edfi b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 cho \u0111i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mong nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\"Cho \u0111i mang \u0111\u1ebfn ni\u1ec1m vui<\/em><\/p>\n

– Th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0\u00a0v\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a t\u1ee5c t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/em><\/p>\n

– Qu\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta trao \u0111i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt ho\u1eb7c d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hy v\u1ecdng nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i c\u00e1i g\u00ec. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n cho m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t l\u1ecbch s\u1eed, t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n\/ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu th\u1ebf. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m c\u00e1c v\u1ecb ch\u00faa h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng th\u00f4ng qua l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i t\u1edbi trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4ng\/b\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 t\u1eb7ng nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. Ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed th\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb em, c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e0.<\/p>\n

\"\"G\u00f3i qu\u00e0 c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1eb9p, c\u00e0ng th\u00eam ni\u1ec1m vui<\/em><\/p>\n

C\u00e1c m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh. Khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng b\u1ed9 l\u1ea1c g\u1eb7p nhau l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trao \u0111\u1ed5i qu\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ni\u1ec1m tin\u2026<\/p>\n

– Nghi l\u1ec5 t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i qua th\u1eddi gian nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/em><\/p>\n

– Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ti\u00eau d\u00f9ng hi\u1ec7n nay, khi l\u1ee3i nhu\u1eadn l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi giao d\u1ecbch, v\u0103n h\u00f3a t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng. Ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 cho nhau, nh\u01b0 Ng\u00e0y l\u1ec5 t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n hay Ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a cha… Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean ni\u1ec1m tin v\u1eabn g\u1eafn v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0.<\/p>\n

V\u1ec1 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xem nh\u1eadn qu\u00e0 nh\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Khi ch\u00fang ta t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 cho ai \u0111\u00f3, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y hay c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n.<\/p>\n

– T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? <\/em><\/p>\n

– \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e2m s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u00fang. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3, ngh\u0129 xem c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u1ecd th\u00edch th\u00fa, vui s\u01b0\u1edbng. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp trung l\u01b0u, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 mua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9 h\u1ecd th\u00edch, n\u00ean m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi th\u1ecb hi\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh t\u1eb7ng, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. M\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i mang y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd.<\/p>\n

– N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 th\u00ec sao?<\/em><\/p>\n

– Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh vui. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 b\u1ecb cho l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh t\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1edf th\u00edch \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

– Nh\u01b0ng sao ta c\u1ee9 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eb7ng \u0111\u00fang m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc?<\/em><\/p>\n

\"\"Tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0<\/em><\/p>\n

– \u0110\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t. M\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p cho \u0111i kh\u00f4ng hy v\u1ecdng nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

– Theo b\u00e0, th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a?<\/em><\/p>\n

– Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. T\u00f4i \u0111ang ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t nh\u1ea1c c\u1ee5 v\u1edbi k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng ch\u00fang s\u1ebd ch\u01a1i nh\u1ea1c hay, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ed3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1edbi k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng h\u1ecd ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 ph\u00e1i y\u1ebfu… Nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eb7ng v\u1edbi \u00fd l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta mong mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7.<\/p>\n

– B\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0?<\/em><\/p>\n

\"\"T\u1eb7ng l\u00e0 cho \u0111i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mong nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i<\/em><\/p>\n

– C\u00e0ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. N\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd cho \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hy sinh cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

– C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean trao \u0111\u1ed5i qu\u00e0 n\u1eefa. B\u00e0 ngh\u0129 sao v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y?<\/em><\/p>\n

– Th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn ki\u1ec3u \u0111\u00f3 qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e1ng bu\u1ed3n. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7, \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e0 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0. Trao \u0111\u1ed5i qu\u00e0 l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc vui v\u1ebb. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean, vui s\u01b0\u1edbng ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn. Qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 giao ti\u1ebfp mang \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1nh l\u1ebdo h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

ANH MINH<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Theo DW<\/em><\/p>\n

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Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ti\u00eau d\u00f9ng, l\u1ee3i nhu\u1eadn l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi giao d\u1ecbch, v\u0103n h\u00f3a t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng. Ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 cho nhau. \u0110\u00f4i khi, t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng cho nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn cho r\u1eb1ng, n\u00ean b\u1ecf l\u1ec7 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":871,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[160,159,161],"class_list":["post-867","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-song","tag-cho-di-khong-nhan-lai","tag-nghi-le-tang-qua","tag-nhung-mat-hang-tieu-dung"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/867","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=867"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/867\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":872,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/867\/revisions\/872"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/871"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=867"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=867"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=867"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}