{"id":5610,"date":"2021-06-15T14:58:59","date_gmt":"2021-06-15T07:58:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/?p=5610"},"modified":"2021-06-15T14:58:59","modified_gmt":"2021-06-15T07:58:59","slug":"ung-xu-tren-mang","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/?p=5610","title":{"rendered":"\u1ee8ng x\u1eed tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u0110\u00eam qua, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1eb7t vi\u1ebft b\u00e0i v\u1ec1 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, d\u00f9 r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n l\u00fd do l\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9i tuy\u1ec3n S\u00e9c y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u0111\u00e1 hay qu\u00e1, ph\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n cho r\u1eb1ng v\u0103n ho\u00e1 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed l\u00e0 c\u1ed1t c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa \u1ee9ng x\u1eed tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng hay ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1eddi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u1ede tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai? B\u1ea1n v\u1eabn l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u00f4i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u1eed t\u1ebf h\u01a1n, hay x\u1ea5u xa h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tho\u00e1t ly v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ed1n \u0111a nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, ho\u1eb7c gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5611 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/images\/2021\/06\/IMG_30041.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"512\" height=\"384\" \/><\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ed1n th\u1ebf, d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u1ee9ng x\u1eed ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n kh\u00e1c nhau. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p ngoan hi\u1ec1n v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp, l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi v\u1eabn th\u00f4 b\u1ec9 v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u1ee5c s\u00fac v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 tin r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng 2 m\u1eb7t trong \u0111\u1eddi th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n th\u1ebf. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, c\u0169ng s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n tin r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng, v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong \u0111\u1eddi th\u1ef1c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c nhau. Tuy nhi\u00ean, <strong><em>c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1ea7m, v\u00ec s\u1ef1 hai m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e2y th\u01a1, v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>V\u1eady th\u00ec c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng hay kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 v\u1edbi \u0111a s\u1ed1 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, b\u1edfi v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft \u1ee9ng x\u1eed t\u1ed1t th\u00ec d\u00f9 tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng hay ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd v\u1eabn t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng v\u1eady th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y <em>tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u1ee9ng x\u1eed t\u1ec7 th\u1ebf, t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta t\u1ee5c t\u0129u, v\u0103ng m\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf?<\/em> C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 v\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 th\u00f4ng qua m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, m\u00e0 \u00edt \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u1ee9ng x\u1eed giao ti\u1ebfp trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m, ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u0169ng \u0111ang \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u1edbi nhau t\u1ee5c t\u0129u, v\u0103ng m\u1ea1ng ch\u1eb3ng k\u00e9m g\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fang ta hay n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m l\u1ec7ch chu\u1ea9n khi nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed. V\u1eady th\u00ec chu\u1ea9n l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Chu\u1ea9n lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p th\u00ec r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, nh\u01b0ng lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh s\u00e2u \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed, v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh b\u1eb1ng v\u0103n ho\u00e1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. B\u1edfi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a v\u0103n ho\u00e1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c ch\u1ec9 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 trong c\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t cao v\u1ec1 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng, t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n, l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, l\u1ee3i \u00edch, v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 thu nh\u1eadp. Khi m\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n m\u1ea3nh v\u1ec1 l\u1ee3i \u00edch, v\u00e0 thu nh\u1eadp th\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t m\u1ea5t \u0111i v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u chu\u1ea9n v\u0103n ho\u00e1, chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng chu\u1ea9n v\u0103n ho\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y nay l\u00e0 <strong><em>\u201ct\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t\u201d. <\/em><\/strong>B\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t th\u00ec ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t chu\u1ea9n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, <em>b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 l\u1ee3i \u00edch, v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>V\u1eady c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eb7t ra trong chuy\u1ec7n \u1ee9ng x\u1eed l\u00e0 g\u00ec? T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng <strong><em>ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1edbt gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i h\u01a1n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i<\/em><\/strong>. Khi b\u1edbt gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng a dua v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea3n c\u1ea3m. <em>B\u1edbt gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f4ng t\u00e2m h\u01a1n khi nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh m\u00ecnh.<\/em> Khi \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu ai c\u1ea7n c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a minh \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ai th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e2u!<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3:<\/em> Ph\u1ea1m Trung Tuy\u1ebfn<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0110\u00eam qua, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1eb7t vi\u1ebft b\u00e0i v\u1ec1 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, d\u00f9 r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n l\u00fd do l\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9i tuy\u1ec3n S\u00e9c y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u0111\u00e1 hay qu\u00e1, ph\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n cho r\u1eb1ng v\u0103n ho\u00e1 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed l\u00e0 c\u1ed1t [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":5611,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"source_name":"","source_url":"","via_name":"","via_url":"","override_template":"0","override":[{"template":"1","single_blog_custom":"","parallax":"1","fullscreen":"1","layout":"right-sidebar","sidebar":"default-sidebar","second_sidebar":"default-sidebar","sticky_sidebar":"1","share_position":"top","share_float_style":"share-monocrhome","show_share_counter":"1","show_view_counter":"1","show_featured":"1","show_post_meta":"1","show_post_author":"1","show_post_author_image":"1","show_post_date":"1","post_date_format":"default","post_date_format_custom":"Y\/m\/d","show_post_category":"1","show_post_reading_time":"0","post_reading_time_wpm":"300","show_zoom_button":"0","zoom_button_out_step":"2","zoom_button_in_step":"3","show_post_tag":"1","show_prev_next_post":"1","show_popup_post":"1","number_popup_post":"1","show_author_box":"0","show_post_related":"0","show_inline_post_related":"0"}],"override_image_size":"0","image_override":[{"single_post_thumbnail_size":"crop-500","single_post_gallery_size":"crop-500"}],"trending_post":"0","trending_post_position":"meta","trending_post_label":"Trending","sponsored_post":"0","sponsored_post_label":"Sponsored by","sponsored_post_name":"","sponsored_post_url":"","sponsored_post_logo_enable":"0","sponsored_post_logo":"","sponsored_post_desc":""},"jnews_primary_category":{"id":""},"jnews_override_counter":{"override_view_counter":"0","view_counter_number":"0","override_share_counter":"0","share_counter_number":"0","override_like_counter":"0","like_counter_number":"0","override_dislike_counter":"0","dislike_counter_number":"0"},"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,16,17],"tags":[2363,2362,2361],"class_list":["post-5610","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-song","category-tieu-diem","category-tin-noi-bat","tag-ban-chat-con-nguoi","tag-su-gia-doi-trong-doi-thuong-va-tren-mang","tag-ung-xu-tren-mang-the-nao"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5610","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5610"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5610\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5612,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5610\/revisions\/5612"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5611"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5610"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5610"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5610"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}