{"id":5575,"date":"2021-06-03T16:22:19","date_gmt":"2021-06-03T09:22:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/?p=5575"},"modified":"2021-06-03T16:22:19","modified_gmt":"2021-06-03T09:22:19","slug":"thu-gui-con-trai-yeu-quy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/?p=5575","title":{"rendered":"Th\u01b0 g\u1eedi con trai y\u00eau qu\u00fd!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Th\u01b0 g\u1eedi con trai y\u00eau qu\u00ed!<\/em><\/strong><\/div>\n
Khi cha nh\u1eadn b\u1ee9c h\u00ecnh n\u00e0y m\u1eb9 g\u1eedi, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 t\u1ea3, con trai \u1ea1. Tr\u00e0o d\u00e2ng ni\u1ec1m vui m\u1eebng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0ng cha c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m: Tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Cha quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u1ed3i vi\u1ebft cho con nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng n\u00e0y, g\u1eedi g\u1eafm \u0111\u1ebfn con v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf cha, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u cha \u0111ang h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, g\u1ecdi cho n\u00f3 to t\u00e1t h\u01a1n th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ed1ng.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 ng\u1ecdn h\u1ea3i \u0111\u0103ng d\u1eabn d\u1eaft cha con ta, gi\u00fap ta tr\u00e1nh l\u1ea7m \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng nhau h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n, con trai \u1ea1.<\/p>\n

Cha kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y cho con nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1ecdc l\u00f5i gian d\u1ed1i, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0m con tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u1eedi g\u1eafm cho con d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y cha tin s\u1ebd g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n gi\u00fap con ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh & t\u1eed t\u1ebf. H\u00e3y tin \u1edf cha, con trai nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

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1.V\u1edbi t\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng & t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o:<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed7i c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng hay m\u1ed7i d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin ri\u00eang, v\u1eady ni\u1ec1m tin t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn nh\u1ea5t? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin, t\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng gi\u00fap con ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n, y\u00eau \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 y\u00eau con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01a1n, con trai \u1ea1. Con h\u00e3y theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Cha bi\u1ebft, m\u1ed7i t\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng ri\u00eang, nh\u01b0ng t\u1ef1u chung ch\u00e2n l\u00fd th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u00e0 th\u00f4i v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u01b0\u01a1ng thi\u1ec7n, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u00e1c \u00e1i. Ai \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o tin ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng l\u00f2ng tin m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng tin c\u1ee7a con nh\u1eb1m ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i \u00edch ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, con c\u1ea7n t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t, con trai nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

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  1. V\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y: <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    S\u00e1ch l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y s\u1ed1 1, con trai \u1ea1. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00fac r\u00fat trong m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i c\u00e2u n\u00f3i, con h\u00e3y l\u0129nh h\u1ed9i ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf sai l\u1ea7m th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong s\u00e1ch. Con \u0111\u1eebng d\u00e0nh c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eed test \u0111\u00fang sai r\u1ed3i l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc.<\/p>\n

    Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf hi\u1ec7n nay nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, v\u00ec h\u1ecd xa r\u1eddi nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch. Khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 hay ph\u1ea3i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, con h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch & g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng chuy\u00ean gia trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 xin \u00fd ki\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, con trai nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

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    1. V\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      \u00d4ng b\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, con h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n mang trong m\u00ecnh l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng. V\u1edbi v\u1ee3 con, con h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n quan t\u00e2m y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng & t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau. Khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u l\u00fd do gia \u0111\u00ecnh tan v\u1ee1, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng ly h\u00f4n ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu v\u1eabn l\u00e0 do s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu quan t\u00e2m & tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nhau trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n

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      1. V\u1ec1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1ng<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 d\u1ec5: <\/em>D\u1ec5 nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 cho \u0111i, d\u1ec5 ngh\u0129 x\u1ea5u v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 trao g\u1eedi ni\u1ec1m tin, d\u1ec5 v\u00f9i t\u1eaft \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 kh\u01a1i g\u1ee3i cho h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1, m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng\u2026 Con nghe l\u1eddi cha d\u1eb7n: s\u1ed1ng h\u00e3y cho \u0111i, s\u1ed1ng h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa, \u0111i\u1ec1u k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/em><\/p>\n

        Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u1eb7p tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ebd \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con v\u00ec d\u00f9 t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho con nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng. C\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a con, l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng hay ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i con, con h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch tha th\u1ee9, v\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd c\u00f3 h\u1ecd m\u00e0 con h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh khoan dung.<\/p>\n

        Ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a, con h\u00e3y v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01b0 x\u1eed r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, v\u1ecb tha, \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u cha t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 con. Lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nguy\u00ean do khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng. Con th\u1eed \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201cM\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ra sao?\u201d.<\/em> C\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady con s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nguy\u00ean do v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n

        Henry Ford, nh\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp h\u00e3ng \u00f4-t\u00f4 Ford c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i \u201cB\u00ed quy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec3u & th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c theo g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh\u201d.<\/em> Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi bao dung m\u1edbi \u0111i theo con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y, con trai \u1ea1. V\u00ec trong giao ti\u1ebfp: bi\u1ebft m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9.<\/em><\/p>\n

        M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1eefa, cha mu\u1ed1n con bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng lu\u00f4n v\u1ea7n v\u0169 & thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y, h\u00f4m nay nh\u01b0 v\u1eady nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0y mai s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c. V\u1eady n\u00ean con h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh ng\u1ee7 m\u00ea trong \u201cV\u00f9ng an to\u00e0n\u201d: n\u01a1i con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an t\u00e2m v\u00e0 y\u00ean \u1ed5n b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n c\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 thui ch\u1ed9t \u0111i \u00fd ch\u00ed – ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u. Con h\u00e3y b\u01b0\u1edbc ra ngo\u00e0i, d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n – va ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1, con trai nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

        Martin Luther King t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cB\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 38, nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd g\u00f5 c\u1eeda cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 k\u00eau g\u1ecdi b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00ednh ngh\u0129a, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, nh\u00e2n v\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00e0 v\u00ec s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ngo\u1ea3nh m\u1eb7t l\u00e0m ng\u01a1 \u0111\u1ec3 \u201ct\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i\u201d \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m b\u1ea1n 90 tu\u1ed5i. \u0110\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, tr\u00ean bia m\u1ed9 kh\u1eafc ghi v\u00e0i d\u00f2ng \u201c\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 n\u01a1i an ngh\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng trai \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft n\u0103m 38 tu\u1ed5i nh\u01b0ng 90 tu\u1ed5i m\u1edbi ch\u00f4n\u201d. Con trai b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf, h\u00e3y l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn S\u1ed0NG ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn T\u1ed2N T\u1ea0I, con nh\u00e9, V\u00ec S\u1ed0NG l\u00e0 cho \u0111i, l\u00e0 in d\u1ea5u..<\/p>\n

        Cha l\u00e0 b\u00e1c s\u0129, l\u00e0 ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt vi\u00ean n\u00ean m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y cha kh\u00e1m b\u1ec7nh, m\u1ed5 x\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c. Th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u lu\u1ed3ng th\u00f4ng tin, kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y cha b\u1eb1ng tu\u1ed5i con, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 s\u00e1ch v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0i radio ho\u1eb7c nghe \u00f4ng b\u00e0 k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i. Tuy v\u1eady, cha v\u1eabn l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch l\u00fac r\u1ea3nh, ch\u1ecdn theo d\u00f5i ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 k\u00eanh th\u00f4ng tin nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eed t\u1ebf. Cha kh\u00f4ng coi th\u01b0\u1eddng ai c\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng cha c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha mu\u1ed1n g\u1eb7p, nh\u1eefng lu\u1ed3ng th\u00f4ng tin cha mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn. Cha quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb9p, nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m nh\u00e2n v\u0103n, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng\u2026<\/p>\n

        Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y, cha kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn th\u00eam nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1ee5n v\u1eb7t nh\u1ecf nhen hay nh\u1eefng scandal trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 cha v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c, v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc\u2026 L\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1p t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau qu\u00ea h\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u00e3y l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Cha th\u1ea5y ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u01b0a \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2u nh\u1eefng su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y v\u1eabn ng\u1ed3i \u00fd ki\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, xoi m\u00f3i gia \u0111\u00ecnh kia. Tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, con trai nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

        D\u00f9 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u00f4i qua v\u1ed9i v\u00e3, c\u00f3 2 \u0111i\u1ec1u cha v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n con h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n mang theo b\u00ean m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u00e0o ph\u00f3ng g\u1eedi \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u1eb7p tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 N\u1ee4 C\u01af\u1edcI & L\u1edcI C\u1ea2M \u01a0N. N\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n nh\u1ea5t & c\u00f9ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u1ea7u n\u1ed1i g\u1ea7n g\u0169i gi\u00fap con k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 con c\u0169ng h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft \u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u con nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

        Con h\u00e3y n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u1edf qu\u00e1n khi b\u00ea ra cho con m\u1ed9t b\u00e1t ph\u1edf n\u00f3ng h\u1ed5i, con h\u00e3y n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e1c l\u00e1i xe taxi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1edf con \u0111i m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn xe an to\u00e0n, con h\u00e3y n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n c\u00f4 lao c\u00f4ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y v\u1eabn lau d\u1ecdn d\u00e3y h\u00e0nh lang n\u01a1i nh\u00e0 con \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng, m\u1ed7i s\u00e1ng con h\u00e3y n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e1c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u1eabn h\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00eam canh gi\u1eef an to\u00e0n cho ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a con, con trai nh\u00e9! V\u00e0 m\u1ed7i khi con m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i, h\u00e3y d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i & n\u00f3i l\u1eddi XIN L\u1ed6I.<\/p>\n

        Tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 l\u00fd v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 duy nh\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 l\u00fd l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn h\u1eb9p & c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p. Ch\u00ednh l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd m\u00e3i kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf con. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, con h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean v\u00e0 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng con h\u01a1n v\u00e0 gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. D\u00f9 ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh sai l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eafc nh\u00e2n t\u00e2m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

        \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec cha mu\u1ed1n con tr\u00e1nh xa & h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t, con c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng?<\/em> \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1i T\u00d4I c\u1ee7a con, con trai \u1ea1. V\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u201c\u00edch k\u1ef7\u201d nh\u1ea5t. N\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n con nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Kh\u00e1t khao c\u1ee7a con, mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a con, \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a con, con th\u00edch, v\u1edbi con\u2026 T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 xoay quanh con & con ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i, con ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n

        M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng cho con nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng \u0111\u00f3. Thay v\u00ec lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i \u201cT\u00d4I\u201d v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i, con h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn M\u1eccI NG\u01af\u1edcI & cho \u0111i, con trai nh\u00e9! T\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng M\u1ef9 J.Kenedy c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i \u201c\u0110\u1eebng h\u1ecfi t\u1ed5 qu\u1ed1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec cho b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec cho t\u1ed5 qu\u1ed1c\u201d.<\/em> Cho \u0111i l\u00e0 c\u00f2n m\u00e3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, con trai \u1ea1.<\/p>\n

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        1. V\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh: <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho con ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn. Cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho con ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 & quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng con nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ph\u00fat \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean con ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t. D\u00f9 con ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi b\u01b0\u1edbc sang tu\u1ed5i th\u1ee9 7 nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bao l\u1ea7n c\u00f9ng cha \u0111i kh\u00e1m b\u1ec7nh – t\u1eb7ng \u00e1o \u1ea5m cho tr\u1ebb em v\u00f9ng cao, \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n con c\u00f9ng cha trao \u0111i nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 d\u00f9 r\u1ea5t b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u01a1 nh\u1ee1 b\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng\u2026 Cha mong mu\u1ed1n t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n l\u01b0\u01a1ng thi\u1ec7n & tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m chia s\u1ebd c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a con s\u1ebd \u01b0\u01a1m m\u1ea7m t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

          Ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c & t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi con s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3. V\u1eady l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 con l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh? Mi\u1ec5n kh\u00f4ng vi ph\u1ea1m ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt, con l\u00e0m ngh\u1ec1 g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, cha lu\u00f4n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. V\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 duy nh\u1ea5t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh chuy\u00ean gia trong ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3, con trai \u1ea1.<\/p>\n

          Th\u00eam m\u1ed9t chi ti\u1ebft nh\u1ecf n\u1eefa cha mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi con li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 con h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1ea1o cho m\u00ecnh \u00edt nh\u1ea5t ba ngu\u1ed3n thu nh\u1eadp, thu nh\u1eadp th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n thu nh\u1eadp n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, th\u1ebf & l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con b\u1ecb gi\u1ea3m \u0111i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi con nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac c\u0169ng s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ra ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, con ch\u1ee3t nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec qu\u00e1 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

          N\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, th\u00eam \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng cha mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0: Ti\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3<\/em>. V\u1eady n\u00ean con h\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con & cho \u0111i th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebd tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u cha mong mu\u1ed1n \u1edf con. Con \u0111\u1eebng \u00f4m tr\u1ecdn ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh & h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf m\u00ecnh, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, con trai nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

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          1. V\u1edbi s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb: <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            D\u00f9 cha v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 b\u00e1c s\u0129 nh\u01b0ng cha mu\u1ed1n con bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb & th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 con, do con \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111o\u1ea1t. Ch\u00ednh l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh con. H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, h\u00e3y gi\u1eef cho tr\u00ed n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh minh m\u1eabn b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o mi\u1ec7ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u cho s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb, con nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

            D\u00f9 th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e0o, thu\u1ed1c l\u00e1 & r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9 mang \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt v\u00e0 n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n, con h\u00e3y tr\u00e1nh xa n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 tr\u00e1nh xa ma tu\u00fd. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, con h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng cho ri\u00eang con, v\u00ec ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kho\u00e1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kho\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh v\u1eefng b\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n

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            1. S\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh & tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              Cha kh\u00f4ng can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng & nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a con, cha ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0a ra \u00fd ki\u1ebfn g\u00f3p \u00fd. Sau 18 tu\u1ed5i, con t\u1ef1 ch\u1ecbu ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ecdi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u0103m cha 18 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1ch ba l\u00f4 ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng Y nh\u1eadp h\u1ecdc, \u00f4ng n\u1ed9i con \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eedi cho cha m\u1ed9t l\u00e1 th\u01b0 k\u00e8m theo l\u1eddi d\u1eb7n \u201cCon h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eed t\u1ebf, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ph\u1ea3i d\u1ea1y con\u201d<\/em>. Cha v\u1eabn nh\u1edb nh\u01b0 in nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi d\u1eb7n \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng n\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

              Khi con l\u00e0m sai, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00f3p \u00fd, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u1eb7ng l\u1eddi, n\u1eb7ng h\u01a1n n\u1eefa l\u00e0 ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt r\u0103n d\u1ea1y\u2026 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 con ch\u01b0a \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn & ch\u01b0a tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. H\u00e3y kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng quan s\u00e1t h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, con trai nh\u00e9! Kh\u00f4ng ai ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, nh\u1eefng ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ec7m c\u1eadn v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

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              1. V\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                C\u1ef1u Th\u1ee7 t\u01b0\u1edbng \u0110\u00e0i Loan t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cTr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea5t di\u1ec7t. \u00c1i t\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u1ee9 \u00f4m \u1ea5p m\u00e3i c\u00e1i \u1ea3o \u1ea3nh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 bi l\u1ee5y v\u00ec t\u00ecnh\u201d,<\/em> cha \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn n\u00e0y, con trai \u1ea1. Tuy v\u1eady cha v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ea7u cho con s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 con y\u00eau qu\u00fd! \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u00fac ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi con.<\/p>\n

                Th\u00eam n\u1eefa, cha c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n con hi\u1ec3u m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o\u1ea1t, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n ri\u00eang t\u01b0. Trong \u0111\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n ri\u00eang t\u01b0 l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m. <\/em>D\u00f9 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn bao nhi\u00eau th\u00ec con v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng quy\u1ec1n ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y tr\u00e1nh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i v\u1ecb k\u1ef7.<\/p>\n

                Th\u1ee7 t\u01b0\u1edbng Anh Winston Churchill t\u1eebng chia s\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng l\u00fd do cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y k\u00e9o d\u00e0i 56 n\u0103m ho\u1eb7c l\u00e2u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t\u2026 ph\u00f2ng t\u1eafm ri\u00eang, N\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ec3 con trai c\u1ee7a cha hi\u1ec3u, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n

                L\u00e0 nam nhi, con c\u0169ng h\u00e3y t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng b\u00f4ng hoa t\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb9p cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi con y\u00eau qu\u00fd m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u1ec5 d\u1ecbp g\u00ec. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i khi xung \u0111\u1ed9t, l\u00e0 nam nhi, con h\u00e3y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i, con trai nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

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                1. L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 con ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con s\u1ebd tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp ni\u1ec1m vui & \u00fd ngh\u0129a n\u1ebfu con lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho m\u00ecnh c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1c quan v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, t\u00e2m th\u1ebf h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc, nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u201c\u0110i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea7y c\u1eebu\u201dcon nh\u00e9! V\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u khi, \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00fd, con trai \u1ea1. Con h\u00e3y b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang con.<\/p>\n

                  Mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c cao, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch v\u00e0 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Con c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi quan, t\u00ednh to\u00e1n & nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t, con trai nh\u00e9! V\u00ec v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi con, con l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a, s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng ai can thi\u1ec7p hay b\u1eaft \u00e9p con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

                  Th\u00eam n\u1eefa, sau m\u1ed7i kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, con h\u00e3y t\u0129nh t\u00e2m ng\u1ed3i & nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed7i b\u01b0\u1edbc con \u0111i, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n con \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh hay l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi con n\u00f3i ra c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00f2n tr\u1ecba ho\u1eb7c v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u1eady n\u00ean con c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

                  Ch\u00ednh qua vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u0111\u00f3, con s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh con, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap con tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n theo th\u1eddi gian. S\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai ho\u00e0n m\u1ef9 c\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u0103n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ed1ng h\u01a1n khi m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9.<\/p>\n

                  N\u0103m nay cha 36 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 theo l\u1ebd th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, cha ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi \u0111i qua m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, n\u00ean nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u cha vi\u1ebft ra \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u cha \u0111ang theo \u0111u\u1ed5i v\u00e0 ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u, con trai \u1ea1.<\/p>\n

                  Nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi h\u1eb9n \u01b0\u1edbc, cha v\u1edbi con v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng nhau th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, con trai y\u00eau qu\u00fd nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

                  \u00a0\u00a0 H\u00e0 N\u1ed9i, h\u00e8 2019<\/em><\/p>\n

                  Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha r\u1ea5t\u2026 \u0111\u1eb9p trai c\u1ee7a con<\/p>\n

                  Tr\u1ea7n Qu\u1ed1c Kh\u00e1nh\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

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