{"id":354,"date":"2017-12-21T16:42:46","date_gmt":"2017-12-21T09:42:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tapchidouong.com.vn\/?p=354"},"modified":"2017-12-21T16:54:32","modified_gmt":"2017-12-21T09:54:32","slug":"hai-huoc-giup-ta-de-song","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/?p=354","title":{"rendered":"H\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u00fap ta d\u1ec5 s\u1ed1ng!"},"content":{"rendered":"

N<\/em>g\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 s\u1ed1ng h\u01a1n<\/em>. Caez<\/em>a<\/em>r<\/em>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ebf ch\u1ebf La M\u00e3<\/em>,<\/em> ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u00e3 khuy\u1ebfn c\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/em>\u2026<\/em> kh\u00e1 nguy hi\u1ec3m<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u1ea2M GI\u00c1C H\u00c0I H\u01af\u1edaC SINH RA T\u1eea \u0110\u00c2U?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nha\u0300 v\u0103n Ph\u00e1p Jean-Paul Sartre (1905-1980) co\u0301 no\u0301i, \u0111o\u0301 la\u0300 t\u0103\u0323ng ph\u00e2\u0309m cu\u0309a kh\u00f4ng pha\u0309i t\u00e2m h\u00f4\u0300n, ma\u0300 cu\u0309a tra\u0301i tim. Nh\u01b0ng gi\u01a1\u0301i th\u00e2\u0300n kinh ho\u0323c nghi\u00ean c\u01b0\u0301u v\u00ea\u0300 m\u0103\u0323t sinh ly\u0301 cu\u0309a ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c la\u0323i \u0111\u0103\u0323t no\u0301 l\u00ean \u0111\u00e2\u0300u, ho\u0323 ba\u0309o chi\u0301nh ba\u0301n c\u00e2\u0300u \u0111a\u0323i na\u0303o tra\u0301i m\u01a1\u0301i chi\u0323u tra\u0301ch nhi\u00ea\u0323m v\u00ea\u0300 ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c, co\u0300n chu\u0301ng ta pha\u0309n xa\u0323 nh\u01b0 th\u00ea\u0301 na\u0300o v\u01a1\u0301i tro\u0300 ha\u0300i \u2013 \u0111i\u00ea\u0300u \u0111o\u0301 phu\u0323 thu\u00f4\u0323c va\u0300o m\u00f4\u0301i li\u00ean h\u00ea\u0323 gi\u01b0\u0303a hai ba\u0301n c\u00e2\u0300u \u0111a\u0323i na\u0303o. Co\u0301 r\u00f4\u0301i loa\u0323n, n\u00ea\u0301u \u01a1\u0309 ba\u0301n c\u00e2\u0300u \u0111a\u0323i na\u0303o tra\u0301i, con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i se\u0303 th\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng xuy\u00ean g\u0103\u0323p pha\u0309i t\u00e2m tra\u0323ng u a\u0301m n\u0103\u0323ng n\u00ea\u0300, n\u00ea\u0301u \u01a1\u0309 ba\u0301n c\u00e2\u0300u \u0111a\u0323i na\u0303o pha\u0309i \u2013 se\u0303 r\u01a1i va\u0300o ti\u0300nh tra\u0323ng la\u0323c quan qua\u0301 tr\u01a1\u0301n. Cho n\u00ean pha\u0309i ki\u0301ch thi\u0301ch nh\u01b0\u0303ng trung t\u00e2m na\u0303o b\u00f4\u0323 nh\u00e2\u0301t \u0111i\u0323nh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111\u00ea\u0301n t\u00e2m tra\u0323ng t\u00f4\u0301t nh\u00e2\u0301t.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\"\"C\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng t\u1eadp th\u1ec3<\/em><\/p>\n

Chi\u0301nh la\u0300 nh\u01b0 v\u00e2\u0323y \u2013 ti\u00ea\u0301ng c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i trong m\u00f4\u0323t nho\u0301m ba\u0323n h\u01a1\u0323p nhau s\u1ebd \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a n\u00e3o \u0111\u1ed3, t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed3, \u0111i\u00ea\u0300u chi\u0309nh huy\u00ea\u0301t a\u0301p va\u0300 thu\u0301c \u0111\u00e2\u0309y nh\u01b0\u0303ng hoo\u0301cm\u00f4n ha\u0323nh phu\u0301c. \u041ahi na\u0300o ta th\u00e2\u0301y trong ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i th\u043ea\u0309i ma\u0301i thi\u0300 nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i kha\u0301c m\u01a1\u0301i thi\u0301ch giao ti\u00ea\u0301p v\u01a1\u0301i t\u0430 h\u01a1n. Ti\u00ea\u0301ng c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u2013 \u0111o\u0301 la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0301i quan h\u00ea\u0323 qua la\u0323i. Ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt, hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t kha\u0301c. Co\u0301 nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111\u00ea\u0301n… ch\u00ea\u0301t khi th\u00e2\u0301y hai ga\u0303 \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng l\u00e2\u0301y ba\u0301nh gat\u00f4 ne\u0301m nhau, nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i kha\u0301c thi\u0300 la\u0323i su\u0300ng m\u00f4\u0323 danh ha\u0300i ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i Anh Monty Python.<\/p>\n

S\u01b0\u0323 kha\u0301c nhau \u0111o\u0301 t\u00f9y theo t\u1eebng m\u01b0\u0301c \u0111\u00f4\u0323, v\u00e2\u0301n \u0111\u00ea\u0300 l\u00e0 \u01a1\u0309 s\u01a1\u0309 thi\u0301ch, nh\u01b0ng ca\u0309m gia\u0301c ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c bao g\u00f4\u0300m v\u00f4 va\u0300n y\u00ea\u0301u t\u00f4\u0301. Vi\u0301 du\u0323, \u0111\u0103\u0323c thu\u0300 ng\u00f4n ng\u01b0\u0303 r\u00e2\u0301t quan tro\u0323ng. Theo thuy\u00ea\u0301t cu\u0309a nha\u0300 xa\u0303 h\u00f4\u0323i ho\u0323c ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i Anh Basil Bernstein, thi\u0300 ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i s\u01b0\u0309 du\u0323ng m\u00e2\u0323t ma\u0303 ng\u00f4n ng\u01b0\u0303 pha\u0301t tri\u00ea\u0309n se\u0303 s\u01a1\u0309 h\u01b0\u0303u c\u00f4ng cu\u0323 du\u0300ng cho tro\u0300 ch\u01a1i ch\u01b0\u0303.<\/p>\n

Tuy \u0111\u0103\u0323c thu\u0300 cu\u0309a m\u00f4\u0323t s\u00f4\u0301 ng\u00f4n ng\u01b0\u0303 cu\u0303ng \u0111o\u0301ng m\u00f4\u0323t vai tro\u0300 nh\u00e2\u0301t \u0111i\u0323nh, nh\u01b0 ti\u00ea\u0301ng Anh ch\u0103\u0309ng ha\u0323n kh\u00f4ng co\u0301 nh\u01b0\u0303ng ca\u0301ch th\u00ea\u0309, nh\u01b0ng co\u0301 v\u00f4 s\u00f4\u0301 c\u00e2u \u0111a nghi\u0303a c\u01b0\u0323c ky\u0300 phu\u0300 h\u01a1\u0323p cho vi\u00ea\u0323c ta\u0323o ra nh\u01b0\u0303ng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i ch\u1eef. M\u01b0\u0301c \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111o\u0323c, kh\u00f4\u0301i l\u01b0\u01a1\u0323ng ki\u00ea\u0301n th\u01b0\u0301c v\u00ea\u0300 th\u00ea\u0301 gi\u01a1\u0301i cu\u0303ng quan tro\u0323ng. Ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c th\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng g\u0103\u0301n v\u01a1\u0301i nh\u01b0\u0303ng s\u0103\u0301c tha\u0301i v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng, cho n\u00ean n\u00ea\u0301u ta ch\u01b0a bi\u00ea\u0301t s\u0103\u0301c tha\u0301i \u0111o\u0301 thi\u0300 se\u0303 kho\u0301 nh\u00e2\u0323n ra ch\u00e2\u0301t ha\u0300i th\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng d\u01b0\u0323a va\u0300o nh\u01b0\u0303ng l\u01a1\u0300i no\u0301i bo\u0301ng gio\u0301 ho\u0103\u0323c thu\u1eadt li\u00ean v\u0103n b\u1ea3n.<\/p>\n

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\u01a0\u0309 m\u01b0\u0301c \u0111\u00f4\u0323 na\u0300o \u0111o\u0301, con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ta ch\u0103\u0301c gi\u0300 \u0111a\u0303 th\u01b0\u0300a k\u00ea\u0301 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c ca\u0309m gia\u0301c ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u00ea\u0300u r\u00e2\u0301t quan tro\u0323ng la\u0300 con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i l\u01a1\u0301n l\u00ean trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng na\u0300o, trong gia \u0111i\u0300nh co\u0301 hay c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111u\u0300a kh\u00f4ng. N\u00ea\u0301u nh\u01b0 co\u0301, ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u00e2\u0301y se\u0303 nha\u0323y be\u0301n v\u01a1\u0301i ch\u00e2\u0301t ha\u0300i. Chi\u0309 c\u00e2\u0300n t\u01b0\u0323 tra\u0309 l\u01a1\u0300i m\u00f4\u0323t c\u00e2u ho\u0309i: ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c la\u0300 gi\u0300? Th\u0435\u043e thuy\u00ea\u0301t ph\u00f4\u0309 bi\u00ea\u0301n nh\u00e2\u0301t, thi\u0300 \u0111o\u0301 la\u0300 ca\u0301ch nh\u00e2\u0323n bi\u00ea\u0301t s\u01b0\u0323 b\u00e2\u0301t t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f4\u0300ng trong cu\u00f4\u0323c s\u00f4\u0301ng xung quanh va\u0300 ti\u0300m ra nh\u01b0\u0303ng gia\u0309i pha\u0301p kha\u0301c cho s\u01b0\u0323 b\u00e2\u0301t t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f4\u0300ng \u00e2\u0301y. Ky\u0303 n\u0103ng na\u0300y, ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i thi\u0300 co\u0301, ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i thi\u0300 kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

Tr\u043eng t\u00e2m ly\u0301 ho\u0323c, ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ta ph\u00e2n ra i\u0301t nh\u00e2\u0301t la\u0300 b\u00f4\u0301n da\u0323ng ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c th\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng g\u0103\u0323p ri\u00eang re\u0303 ho\u0103\u0323c \u0111\u00f4\u0300ng th\u01a1\u0300i. Giu\u0301p gia\u0309i to\u0309a kh\u00f4ng khi\u0301 c\u0103ng th\u0103\u0309ng trong nho\u0301m co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 la\u0300 da\u0323ng ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c k\u00ea\u0301t li\u00ean – \u0111o\u0301 la\u0300 ca\u0301ch k\u00ea\u0309 la\u0323i nh\u01b0\u0303ng chuy\u00ea\u0323n bu\u00f4\u0300n c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i, ng\u01a1\u0301 ng\u00e2\u0309n nh\u0103\u0300m gia\u0309i tri\u0301 cho nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i xung qu\u0430nh.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00ea\u0309 tho\u0309a ma\u0303n ca\u0301 nh\u00e2n thi\u0300 da\u0323ng ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c t\u1ef1 c\u1ed5 x\u00fay la\u0300 quan tro\u0323ng, giu\u0301p thoa\u0301t kho\u0309i tra\u0323ng tha\u0301i stress va\u0300 l\u00e2\u0301y la\u0323i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c ca\u0309m h\u01b0\u0301ng, da\u0323ng na\u0300y bi\u00ea\u0309u hi\u00ea\u0323n \u01a1\u0309 xu h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301ng nh\u00e2\u0323n xe\u0301t nh\u01b0\u0303ng s\u01b0\u0323 vi\u00ea\u0323c g\u00e2y c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u01a1\u0309 quanh mi\u0300nh. Cu\u0303ng co\u0301 da\u0323ng ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c xung ki\u0301ch hung h\u0103ng du\u0300ng \u0111\u00ea\u0309 c\u00f4ng ki\u0301ch ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i kha\u0301c, pha\u0301 v\u01a1\u0303 m\u00f4\u0301i quan h\u00ea\u0323 hi\u00ea\u0323n co\u0301 – \u0111o\u0301 la\u0300 ki\u00ea\u0309u ch\u00ea\u0301 nha\u0323o nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i xung quanh, \u0111em ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ta ra la\u0300m tro\u0300 c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i cho thi\u00ean ha\u0323. N\u00ea\u0301u con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i thi\u00ean v\u00ea\u0300 t\u01b0\u0323 gi\u00ea\u0303u mi\u0300nh qua\u0301 m\u01b0\u0301c, \u0111\u00e2\u0301y la\u0300 ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c t\u01b0\u0323 ky\u0309, th\u00e2\u0323m chi\u0301 co\u0300n \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c go\u0323i la\u0300 ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c t\u01b0\u0323 sa\u0301t.<\/p>\n

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Bi\u00ea\u0301t vui c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i la\u0300 ne\u0301t ti\u0301ch c\u01b0\u0323c, nh\u01b0ng n\u00ea\u0301u con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ta lu\u0301c na\u0300o cu\u0303ng th\u00ea\u0309 hi\u00ea\u0323n mi\u0300nh nh\u01b0 m\u00f4\u0323t anh h\u00ea\u0300, \u0111i\u00ea\u0300u \u0111o\u0301 co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 bi\u00ea\u0309u hi\u00ea\u0323n ca\u0301ch t\u01b0\u0323 \u0111a\u0301nh gia\u0301 mi\u0300nh kh\u00f4ng \u0111u\u0301ng, ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111o\u0301 coi mi\u0300nh la\u0300 ke\u0309 th\u00e2\u0301t ba\u0323i, la\u0300 na\u0323n nh\u00e2n cu\u0309a s\u00f4\u0301 ph\u00e2\u0323n \u0111\u00ea\u0309 nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i kha\u0301c c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i c\u01a1\u0323t. Ng\u043ea\u0300i ra, con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i co\u0301 ca\u0309m gia\u0301c ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c v\u00e2\u0303n co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 g\u0103\u0323p lu\u0301c b\u00ea\u0301 t\u0103\u0301c. Ca\u0301c nghi\u00ean c\u01b0\u0301u \u0111\u00ea\u0300u nh\u00e2\u0301t tri\u0301 chi\u0309 ra r\u0103\u0300ng, n\u00ea\u0301u nh\u01b0 ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c k\u00ea\u0301t li\u00ean g\u0103\u0301n bo\u0301 ch\u0103\u0323t che\u0303 v\u01a1\u0301i ti\u0301nh c\u01a1\u0309i m\u01a1\u0309, \u0111a\u0301nh gia\u0301 cao ba\u0309n th\u00e2n, tho\u0309a ma\u0303n v\u01a1\u0301i ca\u0301c m\u00f4\u0301i quan h\u00ea\u0323 cu\u0309a mi\u0300nh, thi\u0300 ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c xung k\u00edch hung h\u0103ng mang ti\u0301nh thu\u0300 \u0111i\u0323ch va\u0300 b\u00ea\u0323nh ly\u0301 v\u00ea\u0300 th\u00e2\u0300n kinh ch\u01b0\u0301c n\u0103ng.<\/p>\n

GIAO TI\u1ebeP R\u1ea4T C\u1ea6N T\u00cdNH H\u00c0I H\u01af\u1edaC<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ca\u0301c nha\u0300 t\u00e2m ly\u0301 ho\u0323c nh\u00e2\u0301n ma\u0323nh r\u0103\u0300ng ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c \u0111o\u0301ng vai tro\u0300 quan tro\u0323ng trong giao ti\u00ea\u0301p va\u0300 hi\u0300nh tha\u0300nh ca\u0301c m\u00f4\u0301i quan h\u00ea\u0323. Ti\u00ea\u0301ng c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i cu\u0303ng nh\u01b0 ti\u00ea\u0301ng kho\u0301c ta\u0323o n\u00ean s\u01b0\u0323 \u0111oa\u0300n k\u00ea\u0301t trong m\u00f4\u0323t nho\u0301m ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i. N\u00f4\u0303i bu\u00f4\u0300n \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c chia se\u0309 v\u01a1\u0301i ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i kha\u0301c se\u0303 v\u01a1i \u0111i m\u00f4\u0323t n\u01b0\u0309a, co\u0300n ni\u00ea\u0300m vui khi chia se\u0309 se\u0303 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f4i. S\u01b0\u0323 th\u00f4ng hi\u00ea\u0309u r\u0103\u0300ng co\u0301 ai \u0111o\u0301 cu\u0303ng suy nghi\u0303 hay ca\u0309m xu\u0301c nh\u01b0 mi\u0300nh la\u0300 r\u00e2\u0301t quan tro\u0323ng, mang l\u1ea1i ca\u0309m gia\u0301c v\u00ea\u0300 s\u01b0\u0323 th\u00f4\u0301ng nh\u00e2\u0301t va\u0300 thoa\u0309i ma\u0301i v\u00ea\u0300 t\u00e2m ly\u0301.<\/p>\n

M\u00f4\u0303i n\u00ea\u0300n v\u0103n ho\u0301a co\u0301 m\u00f4\u0323t ca\u0301i kha\u0301c v\u00ea\u0300 m\u01b0\u0301c \u0111\u00f4\u0323 n\u00f4\u0300ng nhi\u00ea\u0323t va\u0300 ti\u0300nh ca\u0309m. Nh\u01b0\u0303ng d\u00e2n t\u00f4\u0323c gia\u0300u ti\u0300nh ca\u0309m h\u01a1n thi\u0300 thi\u0301ch nh\u01b0\u0303ng tro\u0300 \u0111\u00f9a co\u0301 ti\u0301nh v\u00e2\u0323t ch\u1ea5t, th\u00ea\u0309 ch\u00e2\u0301t va\u0300 b\u00f4\u0301i ca\u0309nh; nh\u01b0\u0303ng d\u00e2n t\u00f4\u0323c quen ki\u00ea\u0300m ch\u00ea\u0301 trong ti\u00ea\u0301p xu\u0301c gi\u01b0\u0303a con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i v\u01a1\u0301i nhau thi\u0300 \u01b0a nh\u01b0\u0303ng chuy\u00ea\u0323n vui co\u0301 ti\u0301nh tr\u01b0\u0300u t\u01b0\u01a1\u0323ng va\u0300 hay ch\u01a1i ch\u01b0\u0303. La\u0323i co\u0300n y\u0301 thi\u0301ch tra\u0301nh ne\u0301 nh\u01b0\u0303ng hoa\u0300n ca\u0309nh kho\u0301 hi\u00ea\u0309u n\u01b0\u0303a: co\u0301 d\u00e2n t\u00f4\u0323c thi\u0301ch i\u0301t, co\u0301 d\u00e2n t\u00f4\u0323c thi\u0301ch nhi\u00ea\u0300u.<\/p>\n

Nghi\u0303a la\u0300, n\u00ea\u0301u nh\u01b0 xa\u0309y ra m\u00f4\u0323t chuy\u00ea\u0323n gi\u0300 \u0111o\u0301 la\u0323 lu\u0300ng, kho\u0301 hi\u00ea\u0309u thi\u0300 co\u0301 nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i sung s\u01b0\u01a1\u0301ng, ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c la\u0323i, co\u0301 nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i e de\u0300. \u0110\u00f4\u0323 c\u01a1\u0309i m\u01a1\u0309 cu\u0309a m\u00f4\u0303i d\u00e2n t\u00f4\u0323c cu\u0303ng kha\u0301c, va\u0300 nh\u01b0\u0303ng ne\u0301t \u0111o\u0301 la\u0300m n\u00ean ba\u0309n s\u0103\u0301c cu\u0309a ho\u0323. Hi\u00ea\u0309u \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c ca\u0301ch \u0111u\u0300a \u01a1\u0309 m\u00f4\u0323t ngoa\u0323i ng\u01b0\u0303 \u2013 \u0111\u00e2\u0301y m\u01a1\u0301i la\u0300 si\u00eau tha\u0300nh t\u01b0\u0323u. Khi ca\u0301c nha\u0300 nghi\u00ean c\u01b0\u0301u ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c t\u01b0\u0300 kh\u0103\u0301p n\u01a1i tr\u00ean th\u00ea\u0301 gi\u01a1\u0301i tu\u0323 ho\u0323p la\u0323i v\u01a1\u0301i nhau, \u0111\u00e2\u0301y la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng bao g\u00f4\u0300m ca\u0309 nh\u01b0\u0303ng nha\u0300 khoa ho\u0323c nh\u00e2n v\u0103n, khoa ho\u0323c t\u01b0\u0323 nhi\u00ean va\u0300 ca\u0309 nh\u01b0\u0303ng nha\u0300 hoa\u0323t \u0111\u00f4\u0323ng xa\u0303 h\u00f4\u0323i.<\/p>\n

M\u00e2\u0301y n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c co\u0301 m\u00f4\u0323t h\u00f4\u0323i nghi\u0323 nh\u01b0 th\u00ea\u0301 ta\u0323i Krakow va\u0300 ca\u0301c nha\u0300 t\u00f4\u0309 ch\u01b0\u0301c \u0111a\u0303 in s\u0103\u0303n m\u00f4\u0323t cu\u00f4\u0301n sa\u0301ch v\u00ea\u0300 ha\u0300i h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1edf t\u1ea1i, nh\u0103\u0300m go\u0301p ph\u00e2\u0300n xo\u0301a bo\u0309 \u0111i\u0323nh ki\u00ea\u0301n v\u00ea\u0300 ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i Ba Lan. T\u01b0\u0323 gi\u00ea\u0303u c\u01a1\u0323t, \u0111o\u0301 la\u0300 chuy\u00ea\u0323n kha\u0301c, co\u0300n khi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i ch\u00e2m bi\u1ebfm th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y ai mu\u1ed1n. Cho n\u00ean mu\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i c\u0169ng b\u1eb1ng gi\u1ecdng h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n

Mu\u1ed1n th\u1ebf, ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch. Gi\u1edbi t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc M\u1ef9 cho r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc: vi\u1ec7n s\u0129 Paul McGhee c\u00f3 ra m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n h\u00e0i thi\u1ebfu ph\u1ea7n k\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 ta vi\u1ebft ti\u1ebfp. Ng\u043e\u00e0i ra \u00f4ng c\u00f2n khuy\u00ean ta n\u00ean c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, n\u0103ng \u0111i xem h\u00e0i k\u1ecbch v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1eddi theo nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t s\u00e1ng s\u1ee7a. L\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n h\u01a1n, th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c stress, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch g\u00e2y t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

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Ph\u00e1i n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n trai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f2n ph\u00e1i nam l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u1ea1i v\u00ec, n\u1ebfu nh\u00ecn v\u1edbi gi\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1ecbch s\u1eed – v\u0103n h\u00f3a, nam gi\u1edbi th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u00f3p vui cho c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang, c\u00f2n vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a n\u1eef gi\u1edbi l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1edbi tr\u00f2 vui. Trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a, khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta g\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng minh, thi\u1ebft ngh\u0129, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4ng minh th\u1eadt, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh g\u00e2y c\u01b0\u1eddi ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 n\u00e9m nhau b\u1eb1ng b\u00e1nh gat\u00f4 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc \u1edf nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ea1i bi\u1ec3u kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a hai gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Ba Lan Anna Radomska nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t:<\/p>\n

Ph\u00e1i M\u1ea1nh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i t\u1ee5c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed d\u00ednh \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, c\u00f2n Ph\u00e1i \u0110\u1eb9p \u01b0a lo\u1ea1i chuy\u1ec7n thanh, m\u1ec1m m\u1ea1i v\u00e0 trung t\u00ednh. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u1ea3i g\u1eafn b\u00f3 m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 c\u1edfi m\u1edf, bi\u1ebft thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng con m\u1eaft kh\u00e1ch quan.<\/p>\n

Song, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch d\u1ea1ng chuy\u1ec7n h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0o, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u00edch l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u00f3a hay l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u01a1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i hay h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i. Cho n\u00ean \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0y, t\u01b0 ch\u1ea5t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 s\u1ed1ng h\u01a1n. Caezar, ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ebf ch\u1ebf La M\u00e3, ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u00e3 khuy\u1ebfn c\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1 nguy hi\u1ec3m.<\/p>\n

Dorota Brzozowska (Ba Lan)<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nguy\u00ean \u0110\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3c thu\u1eadt <\/em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 s\u1ed1ng h\u01a1n. Caezar, ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ebf ch\u1ebf La M\u00e3, ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u00e3 khuy\u1ebfn c\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng\u2026 kh\u00e1 nguy hi\u1ec3m. C\u1ea2M GI\u00c1C H\u00c0I H\u01af\u1edaC SINH RA T\u1eea \u0110\u00c2U? Nha\u0300 v\u0103n Ph\u00e1p Jean-Paul Sartre (1905-1980) co\u0301 no\u0301i, \u0111o\u0301 la\u0300 t\u0103\u0323ng ph\u00e2\u0309m cu\u0309a kh\u00f4ng […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":358,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[47,46],"class_list":["post-354","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-song","tag-cam-giac-hai-huoc","tag-hai-huoc-trong-giao-tiep"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/354","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=354"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/354\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":363,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/354\/revisions\/363"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/358"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=354"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=354"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/douongvietnam.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=354"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}